Six Reasons why you should leave a Relationship

When is the right time to say goodbye to a relationship? When you were starting together, sky is the limit for your happiness. You met the best guy who brought up the best in you. He is the person who used to surprise you with candle lights in a dinner; open the car door for you; make you laugh through his jokes; hold your hands; and many other doings that made you feel like ‘oh my God! He is the one.. XoXo’. Now, you feel like you are trapped and confused. You do not know if you will keep holding on to your old feelings or just choose to leave.

Time flies. Some things changed. You do not know any longer if you are still in the right place. 

Knowing when to walk away might save you from procrastination.

The tips below might help you decide to leave your relationship.

1. Your trust has been broken many times that resorted to cheating emotionally or physically. A relationship without trust will not work. If you have trust issues, talk with your partner. If nothing changed, it’s time to end your relationship. You deserve some peace of mind.
2. The pet name you used to call each other is now gone. You are now calling each other’s birth name in non-endearing tone. Sometimes, your name turns to labels that a radio or TV wouldn’t air. 
3. Advice and counseling did not work. If you tried getting advice from your friends, elders, priests or pastors about strengthening your relationship and it did not work, it is time to think about moving on. Many can give you good advice but if you find yourself having a hard time doing what they told you, it is now on you.  
4. Respect has gone in the wind. Now, you cannot stand your partner’s presence. You feel irritated about his opinions and you end up in almost-never-ending argument. You shout to each other. You slam the door. He called you; you slammed the phone’s receiver. 
5. Banned from family and friends. Now, the person you meet at the office, in a bar or at a street forbids you to meet your friends and family. Oh come on! Your world is now off-balanced. 
6. Relationship became abusive. Abuse can be mental like yelling, labeling and comparing or physical like slapping, hitting and punching.

Relationship is a two-way street. It is not healthy if one or both does not benefit from each other. Leave when you know it’s time to end. Don’t look back and get ready for a new beginning. God Bless Us.

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